Why we masturbate – not for pleasure only

The masturbation subject was always considered as shameful: she was hesitated to be lifted even in the narrow company and if straight talk after all happened, its participants instantly reddened. However, times change. According to experts, in masturbation there is nothing bad, even on the contrary: it not only brings pleasure, but also is useful to health. In this material the experts will tell everything that it is necessary to know about this intimate process.

Why we masturbate?

The first that needs to be acquired: masturbation is normal. Process is not what other as a research of the body and sexuality. Touching intimate zones, people study as it gives pleasure to them. Someone uses for this purpose hands, someone – sex toys. Even reading a sensuality is considered some kind of masturbation: we try to understand what thoughts and fantasies us are excited.

Mixing business with pleasure

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    Masturbation not necessarily has to come to an end with an orgasm, it is just pleasant process.

When, as well as with someone?

Consciously people begin to masturbate in 14 – 16 years, but in an interval from 20 to 60 they do it much more often. There is no concept “norm”. Someone does this every day, to someone once a month suffices. Some do not masturbate in general – it’s very individual.

The same concerns also the process: it is possible to do it as alone, and together with the soulmate. By the way, such experience definitely will bring together partners.

    Normally, when the man or the woman masturbates, being in a relationship. Desire to derive pleasure cannot be considered as treason right now.

Masturbation pluses

Masturbation is necessary for removal of sexual tension, and in it there is a lot of advantage for physical and psychological health.

• First, it reduces stress. There are those who masturbate before an important action, examination or a performance to calm down.
• Secondly, it is a great way to learn the preferences. Touching itself, we learn “hot spots”. The person who masturbates will be able to explain to the partner what at the moment of proximity is pleasant to him. And it will save from many problems in a relationship.
• Thirdly, for some girls masturbation helps to reduce premenstrual symptoms. Others, manage to fall asleep quicker while someone masturbates to strengthen a tone of muscles around genitals.

If to develop a tone of muscles which directly participate in process of masturbation and an orgasm then feelings will be much brighter and more pleasant. The woman with “conscious muscles” always feels more better that it is more pleasant to her. Moreover, and process of reduction and relaxation of muscles during an orgasm happens is much more notable and is more accurate, giving pleasure to both partners.

Whether masturbation can do harm?

Masturbation can be considered harmful, only if it begins to disturb a daily routine, provoking delay.

Important: you should not touch yourself dirty or dirty objects at all.

    Derive pleasure and remember: everything, what are you doing with a body – your personal record. The you learn yourself and the requirements more, the you become healthier and happier.

Opinion of the sexologist

– Masturbation – really normal phenomenon of sexual human life. Also she begins contrary to popular belief not at teenage age, and in children’s. Naturally, not at all, but both the early beginning of masturbation, and its absence – norm option.

As practice shows, masturbation process not always is safe. And it needs to be considered, keeping the intimate photos or corresponding with the partner. Now the issue of safe sex includes also the section of cyber security.

Whether masturbation still can do some harm besides information?

Yes. When it happens regularly several times a day when strong sexual stimulators (porn or additional objects) are used. All this can weaken sensitivity, and further in sex with the partner there will be difficulties with reaching an orgasm.

It is also dangerous to use the objects which are not intended for stimulation of genitals which can leave grazes, get stuck, unlike specialized sexual toys which are made of special materials therefore minimize risks. But even with them very intensive and frequent masturbation can lead to loss of sensitivity.

    Optimum frequency can vary for different people from absolutely rare episodes to 1 – 2 times a day. But all this very individually and depends as on presence of the permanent and suitable partner for sex, and on preferences of each person. In sex first of all reasonable approach and safety are important. Only this way it is possible to relax and derive pleasure.